When I smiled at them, they scarcely believed it; the light of my face was precious to them. I chose the way for them and sat as their chief; I dwelt as a king among his troops; I was like one who comforts mourners.
Job 29:24-25//

When other people are blessed by our actions or presence, it is because God is using us to bless others; not because we are a blessing on our own.